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What’s Wrong With Blaming A “Selfish Generation” For Our Birthrate Shortage

Italy’s long slide below replacement birth rate is driven by fewer women of childbearing age and weak support systems, not by “selfish” young women.

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Society

Parenting Divided? The Weight On Couples When One Didn’t Really Want Kids

When partners differ in their wish for children, research shows it often results in imbalanced responsibilities, hidden power struggles, and lasting strain.

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Society Women Worldwide

Science Says Late Motherhood Has Real Benefits — My 5-Year-Old Didn’t Get The Memo

The author, a 49-year-old Kindergarten mom, shares her own experience — and looks at the emerging science about raising children later in adulthood.

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Society Women Worldwide

Is My Son An Incel? Adolescence, Andrew Tate And A Feminist Mother’s Worst Fears

While parents are busy working, ideologues are targeting their children online with misogynistic propaganda. Die Zeit’s Caroline Rosales always thought it could never happen to her.

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Femicide, Sperm Bank Discrimination And The Other Nightmares Of China’s Patriarchy

As China’s population declines, more women want children without husbands. But strict laws and traditional values still block their path to single motherhood.

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Society Women Worldwide

A Wartime Market — The Dark Side Of Ukraine’s International Surrogacy Business

Since the start of the Russian invasion, Ukrainian surrogacy clinics have expanded their market to China and the Arab countries and have increased the range of services, including births in Greece, Cyprus and Georgia.

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Future Society

Our High-Tech Witch Hunts: GPS And A Daughter’s Transgender Boyfriend

In southern Italy, a 19-year-old woman was kidnapped by her parents for falling in love with a transgender man. Tracked down with a GPS, imprisoned, and forced to “recover” from her “disturbance.” Are we returning to the days of witch hunts?

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Microdosing Parents: Can Psychedelics Make Mom And Dad More “Present”?

Small doses of psychedelic drugs are said to make parents more engaged and even childlike in their enthusiasm. Is this reckless nonsense, or a parenting breakthrough?

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Psychedelics For Parenting? The Rise Of Microdosing As A Way To “See” Like Your Kids

Small doses of psychedelic drugs are said to make parents more engaged and even childlike in their enthusiasm. Is this reckless nonsense, or a parenting breakthrough?

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Society Women Worldwide

Why Sweden Isn’t The Family Paradise You May Think

Wild nature, good childcare, equal rights: Sweden is often romanticized as a paradise for parents to raise kids. But the reality is far more complicated.

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Ode To The Runaway: Why Young Italians Should Flee The Family Nest

Usually an insult, “runaway” could be a compliment for those who dared to emancipate themselves — particularly in Italy, where a majority of 18- to 34-year-olds still live with their parents. It’s time to set our children free.

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Jetlag, Broken Bones, Identity Crisis: Parenthood Across Time And Space

Life is a constant transition — and so is parenthood. How do we find balance and meaning in the midst of chaos and uncertainty, asks journalist Ignacio Pereyra in the latest iteration of his “Recalculating” newsletter on parenthood.

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Future Society

Laugh? Cry? Both!? The Neuroscience Behind Mixed Emotions

Have you ever been torn between two emotions and don’t know why? Research is uncovering how your brain can cause you experience two conflicting emotions at the same time.

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Thinking About My Late Parents On A Nostalgic Morning

A father goes back to the role of son for a while and discovers things about his parents: their music, habits and upbringing. Is it harder now to be a parent than it was before? What will the author’s children be left with from their upbringing?

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Nepal’s “Community Forest” Paradox, When Protecting Wildlife Leads To Captivity

The public can view caged wildlife in these locally managed preserves under federal laws allowing for ecotourism ventures. But the parks do more harm than good, experts say.

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Testosterona, A Chilean Writer Confronts The Childhood Trauma Of “Gay Cure”

Chilean-born, Buenos Aires-based writer Cristian Alarcón says it took 30 years of therapy to get over his parents’ bid to “cure” him of being gay as a child, but insists it’s too late to be angry with them.

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Ideas Society

End-Of-Year Notes: Our Eternal Hunt For Optimism

Wars, terrorist attacks, natural disasters, famines … The news gives us every right to despair – but as the author puts it: “Anyone can be cynical, the challenge is to be an optimist.”

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How Nepal’s “Left-Behind” Children Of Migrants Hold Families Together

Children left to fend for themselves when their parents seek work abroad often suffer emotional struggles and educational setbacks. Now, psychologists are raising alarms about the quiet but building crisis.

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In Nepal, Good And Bad News About Autism Treatment

Parents in Karnali province started their own center to meet the need. But without adequate government funding, its survival is in doubt.

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The Extreme Highs And Lows Of The Parenting Rollercoaster

From sick kids to kindergarten and travel. The everyday realities of paternity operate in the extremes. In the latest iteration of his “Recalculating” newsletter on parenthood, Argentine writer Ignacio Pereyra examines what it means to be a father.

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Italy’s Crackdown On Same-Sex Parents Could Retroactively Dissolve Families

A new measure from the right-wing government could force same-sex parents of children already in elementary school to suddenly lose their parental rights and status.

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Talking To My Four-Year-Old About Death

As he is faced by questions about death from his 4-year-old son during a family visit to Argentina, Recalculating author Ignacio Pereyra replies honestly. “I can only tell him the truth, at least the little truth that I know…”

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They Grow Up So Fast

Our Neapolitan psychiatrist on Italy’s eternal “mammoni” …

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Ideas Society

An Ode To Gratitude — The First Step To A Better Life

Learning to actively be more grateful to those in our lives, even when it’s hard, can change everything.

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Three-Parent Families Emerging From Legal Limbo In Argentina

Multi-parent families or triple parenting are not yet enshrined in the law in Argentina, a continental pioneer of innovative social rights, but so far and in spite of legal challenges, court rulings have recognized the reality of children with “three parents.”

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Play And Pay: Why Singapore’s Education System Is Top Of The Class

For years, Singapore has topped education rankings and inspired other school systems. Among the keys to its success is a playful approach to education and highly paid teachers. But many worry about the pressure the system places on children.

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Beyond COVID: Why Ugandan Kids Can’t Go Back To School

Severe weather and a lack of upkeep during pandemic shutdowns wreaked havoc on school facilities. Officials and parents are scrambling to rebuild.

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The Trauma Of War, A Poisoned Guide For Parenting

As a psychoanalyst, Wolfgang Schmidbauer has researched the psychological effects of war on children — and in the process, also examined his own post-War childhood in Germany. In this article, he warns that parents tend to use their experiences of suffering as a method of education, with serious consequences.

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How Courts Around The World Are Stripping No-Vaxxers Of Parental Rights

The question of who gets to decide questions around a child’s health when vaccines are at play is complicated, and keeps popping up from Italy to Costa Rica to France and the U.S.

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When Grown Children Shelter-In-Place With Mom And Dad

Reunited and it feels so…? In France, a number of young adults chose to spend the confinement period with their parents. Families butted heads, of course, but also bonded.

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Ideas Society

The Problem With China’s Parents-Know-Best Mentality

Adults have a lot of leeway when it comes to raising kids. But that doesn’t mean their power should be absolute — parents don’t, after all, have ownership of their children.

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The Psychological Price Of Successful Parents

BUENOS AIRES — Eduardo Roverano, 61, inherited the family business, a Buenos Aires funeral home founded in 1883 by his great grandfather. “I have vague memories of when the funeral cart was drawn by black horses,” he recalls. “I began working at 15. And it wasn’t a desk job. They sent me to pick up […]

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In Sweden, A More Hands-On Approach To Premature Births

Swedish hospitals are a model for a more natural, less clinical approach to caring for newborn and premature babies.

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Society

The French Boomerang: When Adult Kids Move Back Home (With Lover In Tow)

The twin problems of the economic crisis and university studies taking longer than expected have conspired to force many young adults to return home to their parents. Problem is, sometimes they bring their partners too.

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Society

Help? That Homework Question For Parents Everywhere

Just how much help should parents offer to their children? Like anything, it’s a delicate balance, but a word with the school may also be a required assignment for mom and dad.

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Ideas Society

Family Rights Future: Biological Fathers, Lesbian Mothers

A heartwrenching court case in France poses thorny questions as the very meaning of family evolves more quickly than the legal system, or even the experts, can keep up with.

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My Son Has Committed Unspeakable Crimes

What is it like to be the parent of a “monster?” After their teenaged son confessed to rape and murder in southern France, the parents of Matthieu Moulinas decide to tell their story.

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Childhood Obesity In China, A Rich Kid’s Problem

Contrary to the West, where obesity rates are higher in poorer, less well-educated areas, China’s overweight youth are from wealthy families. It has been dubbed a “disease of affluence.”

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Just A Slap? Argentina’s Old Ideas On Child Discipline

Argentina is the patriarchal latecomer after moves by several Latin Americans to adopt norms to outlaw any physical violence inflicted on children.

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Meet France’s Boomerang Kids, Moving Back In With Parents At Middle Age

The financial crisis has seen middle-aged French increasingly returning to their family nests. For many, it can be a special kind of shame to move back in with elderly parents.

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