Feminists infiltrate the βincelosphereβ β where toxic content warps modern masculinity
An increasing number of male teens and young adults who've experienced feelings of rejection wind up in what's been dubbed the βincelosphere,β a place where they can find mutual understanding in a world they think is against them. For Gazeta Wyborcza, two women Polish journalists spent two years on the online servers these βbeta malesβ are flocking to in ever greater numbers.
In her book For The Love Of Men: From Toxic To A More Mindful Masculinity, Canadian feminist writer Liz Plank explained that the struggle of women can never be one without confronting the crisis of manhood.
Plank is part of the forward-thinking feminist researchers and authors who've dedicated a significant amount of their work to the problems of men and masculinity, always sure to arouse suspicion. In reality, from a young age, we are forced into one of two oppressive patterns β masculinity and femininity β which in turn shape our behavior and our choices.
Thanks to the feminist movement, women now enter roles once reserved for men more frequently and eagerly than ever before, and teach their daughters that they can be whoever they want to be.
What has not changed nearly as much is our perception of masculinity.
The dominant image is still that of the strong, resourceful, male who pushes forward, takes risks and copes with adversities on his own. But today, they also must be sensitive, attentive, and empathetic as well (just not too much). Parents are still afraid of raising βweakβ sons.
These are the roots of the so-called βmasculinity crisisβ. Usually, this phenomenon is reduced to some version of "men cannot keep up with emancipated womenβ. In reality, however, we as a society are the ones who cannot keep up with the need of dismantling toxic patterns of masculinity and creating new, healthy ones.
Instead, we leave young, lost adolescent boys at the mercy of patriarchal gurus who are preaching online.
Without anyone to talk to about their fears and uncertainties, and unable to count on their loved ones for understanding, these boys join internet communities, where they are taught that the βorderβ of certain men being naturally superior to them is natural, that it has been shaped by evolution, and that it cannot be changed.
In other words, theyβve already lost, so itβs better to get used to it and admit to their failures.
In March 2021, I was an exemplary feminist. I had several years of activist and journalistic work on behalf of victims of sexual violence under my belt, and my book about rape in Poland had just been published. Every day, I spoke to women who experienced sexual violence. With every story I heard, my aversion to men only grew stronger.
Only a few months later, I found myself in a closed internet server with a few dozen incels, exchanging messages and sharing observations from my experiences on a daily basis. My being there divided the feminist community.
I received a lot of support, but I also read that I had βbetrayedβ the feminist movement, that I was a βguardian of the patriarchyβ, that I was spending time with rapists, and that I wanted to force women to βbow downβ to these men, or to sexually gratify misogynists. [...]
β Read the full Gazeta Wyborcza by Patrycja Wieczorkiewicz, translated into English by Worldcrunch.
β’ At least 52 killed in blast at Pakistan rally: A suspected suicide bomb blast Friday killed at least 52 people at a procession to celebrate the birthday of Prophet Muhammad in Pakistanβs Balochistan province. No group has claimed responsibility for the attack yet.
β’ Putin meets former Wagner top commander Troshev: Russian President Vladimir PutinΒ met Andrei Troshev, one of the most senior ex-commanders of the Wagner mercenary group, on Friday to ask him to oversee volunteer fighter units in Ukraine. Troshev, who was a former aide of late Wagner chief Yevgeny Prigozhin, is now working for the defense ministry, the Kremlin said. For more, see our Story of the Day below.
β’ Suspect arrested in Rotterdam twin shootings that killed three: Dutch police have apprehended a man thought to have killed at least three people in twin shootings yesterday in the port city of Rotterdam. The 32-year-old suspect allegedly first opened fire in a home and set it on fire, killing a woman and her daughter, before storming the Erasmus Medical Center, killing a man. Motives are as of yet unknown, although the suspect is thought to be a student at the cityβs Erasmus University, with which the hospital is affiliated.
β’ Blinken meets with Indian foreign minister to urge cooperation with Canada: Indiaβs foreign minister, Subrahmanyam Jaishankar, was in Washington DC to meet U.S. Secretary of State Antony Blinken, who has urged India to cooperate with a Canadian investigation into the killing of a prominent Sikh Canadian leader. A diplomatic row had erupted between India and Canada after Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau said that Ottawa was investigating βcredible allegations of a potential linkβ between India and the murder of Hardeep Singh Nijjar.
β’ Sweden turns to military as gang violence surge: Swedenβs prime minister announced he has summoned the head of the Swedish armed forces and the police commissioner in a bid to stem gang violence, after a wave of attacks has left 11 dead so far this month. βSweden has never before seen anything like this,β Swedenβs Prime Minister Ulf Kristersson said.
β’ Record number of migrants crossing Panama's Darien Gap: The number of migrants crossing the dangerous Darien Gap which links Panama and Colombia has hit a record annual high of 402,300 through September β almost double the number of the whole of 2022. According to data released by Panama, most migrants come from Venezuela, as well as Ecuador and Haiti, and half are children and babies. Read more on the migrants undertaking the perilous journey to reach the U.S.
β’ Europe's oldest shoe found in bat cave: Scientist analyzing objects discovered in a bat cave in in Andalusia, southwestern Spain, have identified Europe's oldest shoes, sandals woven from grass thought to be around 6,000 years old.
βShivers through Rotterdam,β reads the front page of Dutch daily Trouw, after the port city was shocked by twin shootings. Police arrested a 32-year-old male suspected to have opened fire at a home, killing a woman and her daughter, before storming the cityβs Erasmus Medical Center, killing a man.
$4.2 million
French actor GΓ©rard Depardieu, who is currently involved in a number of sexual abuse allegations, brought in over $4 million on Wednesday with the sale of his art collection through the Parisian auction house Ader. More than 95% of the 250-plus lots were sold, including pieces by Pablo Picasso, David Hockney and Ossip Zadkine.
Wagner Group 2.0: why Russia's mercenary system is here to stay
Many had predicted that the death last month of Wagner Group chief Yevgeny Prigozhin meant the demise of the mercenary outfit. Yet signs in recent days say the private military outfit is active again in Ukraine, a reminder of the Kremlin's interest in continuing a private fighting formula that has worked all around the world.
π·πΊ How could an independent military outfit survive after its charismatic founder's death? It seemed highly unlikely that President Vladimir Putin would allow the survival of a group after had launched a short-lived coup attempt in late June that most outside observers believe led to Prigozhin's private airplane being shot down by Russian forces on August 23. "Wagner is over,β said the Kremlin critic and Russian political commentator Maksim Katz. Yet barely a month later, and there are already multiple signs that the Wagner phoenix is rising from the ashes.
πΊπ¦ In recent days, fighters affiliated with Wagner have once again been spotted on the battlefield near Bakhmut in the Russian-occupied Donetsk region, according to a Ukrainian drone operator. This confirmation supports earlier reports from Russian sources regarding the resurgence of Wagner mercenaries near the strategic city in eastern Ukraine. This marks the first official confirmation of the Wagner Group's reappearance in Ukraine.
π For more than a decade, Russia has built up a system of independent mercenary groups that were deployed for covert military operations in various global hotspots. Though the best-know, Wagner was hardly the only such outfit. These groups have operated with a level of deniability for the Russian government, allowing Moscow to pursue its geopolitical interests without direct military intervention. Their activities spanned from Ukraine to Syria, Libya, and several African nations.
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βIf you shush up, Iβll meet with you immediately after this.β
β Joe Biden had a pretty direct reaction to a climate protester demanding a stronger federal response to climate change while the U.S. president was giving a speech in Arizona. After initially saying he would be happy to meet up after his speech, the heckling continued, leading Biden to his βshush upβ quip β a response that was met with laughter and applause, as he went on to joke that βDemocracy is never easy.β
Rescue efforts under way after a suspected suicide bomb blast killed at least 52 people at a religious procession in southwestern Pakistan.β Photo: Yuvraj Singh Mann via X/Twitter
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