The victim narrative

But Victor, a 50-year-old software engineer, believes pacifism is in fact a sign of something more callous. “I think this pacifist position often hides the fact that such people actually have a strong association with the Russians, and in particular with those waging the war.”

Natalya, a 48-year-old scientist, believes the pacifist position often stems from a victim complex that many Russians have accepted since the invasion last February.

The victim narrative assumes we can’t solve anything.

“As a Russian woman, I do not accept the narrative of the victim of the totalitarian regime. The victim narrative denies people their own will and their own choice. Were your hands tied?” she asks. “Even those who were mobilized, they went to the military registration and enlistment office on their two feet. And the victim narrative assumes we can’t solve anything.”

Natalya admits that there are, of course, individual cases when people really are forced away from work, home or other places and sent to the front. “We understand that such people exist, but what do we do about it? We must stop the killing of those they go to kill. This is much more important now. If you feel sorry for those who are taken away, mobilized, this (war) cannot be stopped,” she says.

“I went to rallies in Russia,” Natalya says. “I was detained by the police twice. My family and I left after the annexation of Crimea and now we live in the U.S. Since the beginning of the war, I have been in a difficult psychological state, but the thing I do to keep me morally stable is buy drones. It supports me and gives me strength. The war will end when everyone makes an effort to do little things," she says. "Our group here is a small drop. But the sea is created from lots of small drops.”

Ukrainian drone forces

Initially, the group was formed by two volunteers from Canada and Kyiv in April 2022. They bought one drone for the territorial defense of Kharkiv, then another and another, figuring out as they went which drones were most needed, and establishing closer ties with the Ukrainian military.

“More than half of the group consists of Russians, and we work together with Ukrainians,” Natalya says. “The confidence of Ukrainians in us is extremely valuable. There are no communication difficulties in our group. Correspondence in our chat is both in Russian and Ukrainian. We asked our Ukrainian volunteers how they feel: everyone invariably answered that we are divided here not by ethnicity, not by citizenship — Russians and Ukrainians — but by our tasks and goals, by our vision of the situation.”

Ukrainian volunteers collect requests for drones from frontline units. The group then buys drones in Europe, and Ukrainian volunteers take them to Kyiv and then to different sectors of the front.

“We saw what a useful and necessary thing drones were. They save lives,” Andrei says. “We began to find friends who agreed to financially help and work with us to source and purchase drones. In eight months, we have grown into a fully-fledged volunteer group, and more than 40 drones we bought are working at the front.”

We can say that our drones participated in the liberation of Kherson.

The group has raised over €25,000 in donations from around the world — even transfers from Russians still in Russia, often via proxies for safety.

Using drones

“It is important to emphasize that drones are not weapons. They are the ‘eyes’ (of the military),” Natalya says.

In addition to reconnaissance and artillery adjustment, the drones the group sends to the front help Ukrainian soldiers to find and recover the wounded. Medicines and supplies can also be loaded onto drones and sent to the front.

“We cannot disclose information about specific units that we helped,” Andrei says. “But we can say that our drones participated in the liberation of Kherson and the liberation (of territories) in the Kharkiv region. Our drones are also now working near Bakhmut and Donetsk.”